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What does gabru mean in Punjabi?

Gabru (ਗੱਭਰੂ), pronounced GUB-roo, is a Punjabi noun for a young man in the prime of his youth: strong, full of energy and usually turned out in his best. In modern Punjabi songs and everyday youth speech it carries a proud, admiring tone, closer to a dashing young man or a strapping lad than to a plain word for a boy.

How is gabru used in songs and everyday speech?

Punjabi pop runs on the gabru. Song after song is built around him: he ties his turban with care, keeps his friends close, drives through the village and hopes the mutiyar, the young woman of the song, will notice him. Guides to Punjabi song words routinely gloss gabru as a stud or a dashing young man, which captures the boast built into the word. Off stage, families use it with affection and pride for a son or grandson who has grown tall and strong, and friends use it to tease a mate who has dressed up for a wedding or a night out.

The word also turns up in an old saying about a tall, handsome gabru whose pockets hold only broken shards: a warning that looks alone are worth little without work or substance behind them. The saying works precisely because gabru sets such a high bar: the word promises youth, strength and presence, all in one.

Is gabru the same as munda or jawan?

Not quite. Munda is the everyday word for a boy or a young man, and jawan means a young man or a youth, with a second life as the word for a soldier. Gabru is narrower and warmer: it points to a young man in his full prime, and it almost always carries admiration. A schoolboy is a munda, a recruit is a jawan, but the young man a song celebrates is a gabru.

What is the feminine counterpart of gabru?

Mutiyar. Punjabi songs love the pair: the gabru sings, boasts and shows off, and the mutiyar answers, teases and decides. Where gabru celebrates a young man grown into his strength, mutiyar celebrates a young woman grown into her confidence, and together the two words frame a huge share of Punjabi folk and pop romance.